About Eri


Eri Kardos is the founder and lead coach of Relearn Love, LLC.
Eri’s specialty is helping leaders create more influence in the boardroom by experiencing deeper, more fun, and fulfilling connections in the bedroom. Her science- and somatic-based methods spark old and new passion, take you to new places of intimacy, and melt away patterns of conflict so that your love life becomes your secret weapon to make more impact in your career, family, and community. She specializes in helping you learn new ways to communicate and connect so you can create the partnership you’ve always dreamed of, whether you’re single, in a committed partnership, or practicing ethical non-monogamy.

In addition to being a TEDx speaker, Eri is one of the most highly recommended speakers at top global companies such as Amazon and Microsoft. She works with clients across six continents, ranging from top tech executives and Hollywood creatives to everyday people living extraordinary lives.
Eri holds a bachelor’s degree focused on sexual psychology and an MBA in Global Leadership from the world’s #1 international business school. For over a decade, she has also been an active sex-positive educator and facilitator, leading workshops and community dialogues around the world on topics including conscious communication, relationship agreements, ethical non-monogamy, consent culture, and kink/BDSM. She has been featured as a guest expert in dozens of books and podcasts around the globe, sharing practical wisdom on how to deepen intimacy, expand trust, and live your desires with integrity.

Eri is the author of the best-selling book, Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and Increasing Intimacy to Design Your Ideal Relationship.
A former leadership development professional at Amazon, Eri’s transition into creating Relearn Love began when the executives she supported started trusting her with their most personal challenges. She saw the pattern: when leaders thrive at home, they lead with more focus, clarity, and energy at work. This creates a positive ripple effect across their families, teams, and communities. Since then, tens of thousands across the world have been positively impacted by her work.
Eri is the mama of two incredible children and shares a powerful, conscious relationship with her husband, Jaymin Patel. They have a chapter of their own love story featured in Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Miracle of Love. Eri and her family live on the tropical island of Bali, where she hosts private retreats for her clients from around the world.

Giving Back Through RLL

Love has a ripple effect. It has a way of changing the way we interact with others, and how they in-turn interact with the world around them. Each time we have the courage to model love and gratitude, we are creating positive change and showing up as leaders with heart.
At Relearn Love, we walk our talk. 10% of every investment that private clients make for changing their own lives also transforms the lives of those in need around the world. How? When you become a client we sponsor a child in Bali so that they can receive the clothes, food, shelter, and development they need for a full year.
You can learn more about the Bali Street Mums Project by checking out their website.

Choosing to invest in your own love transformation will have a huge ripple effect on those around you (children, parents, community, and workplace) – beginning in Bali.
Why this organization?
Eri knows Kim, the founder, personally and has seen the incredible impact it has on the women and children of the slums of Denpassar, Bali. Eri and her family have sponsored 7 children over the years and their family spends time with the staff and volunteers who are there day in and day out, healing old wounds and creating a safe environment to break the patterns of poverty and abuse.
Choosing to invest in your own love transformation will have a huge ripple effect on those around you (children, parents, community, and workplace) – beginning in Bali.
