What does "doing the work" look like in my marriage and how can you apply it in your relationship? I know one process that really softens the tension for a lot of couples at any stage of being together. Ready for it? Step #1: Create Clear Boundaries We start by...

Who said romance fades out after the honeymoon phase is over? After 8+ years married and coaching hundreds of couples inside of my private mentorship and live workshops, these are 3 lies that need a serious reality check: Lie #1: The 'honeymoon phase' will end...

One of the most striking features of a healthy relationship is when you or your partner naturally refer to the other as “baby”.   Have you adopted this cute nickname too? You’ve likely invested a considerable amount of energy and pride in growing up.  You no longer...

Why my most successful couples see huge breakthroughs in their relationship inside Relearn Love… Before I reveal the secret, do any of these sound familiar to you? You roll over, hoping to snuggle (& more…!), only to be greeted with the blue light of your...

“Your relationship looks so perfect - at least on social media” is what people often say to us.  And, yes, while Jaymin and I have done a lot of work and use a lot of tools, our relationship still can get messy. We are human and wired the same as everyone else - and,...

clOnce you Relearn Love, get ready to answer one question a lot… “What changed?” It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together 10 years or 10 months, you just want that feeling.  That feeling of being craved.  That feeling of being adored.  That feeling of being truly...

There’s not a moment in my relationship that the right coach couldn’t have made better.  Yes, even the intimate moments.  Yes, even the fairytale moments.  Yes, even the vulnerable moments.  Yes, even the “I can’t believe I just said that” moments. Your relationship...

I have one simple practice to keep the flame growing in the midst of everyday busy-ness… If you’re not building connection in your partnership, you’re losing it.  You’ve been together for long enough to know when you’re giving each other your best, and when a peck on...

When you stop waiting for your partner to take responsibility for their share of the challenges, your relationship becomes instantly more loving. Let me explain… Someone once told me that I am a strange mix of sweet-kindergarten-teacher meets dominatrix. Yep. That...

I have one simple practice to keep the flame growing in the midst of everyday busy-ness… If you’re not building connection in your partnership, you’re losing it.  You’ve been together for long enough to know when you’re giving each other your best, and when a peck on...

They thought it would be impossible to recover their relationship again.  Too much time filled with loneliness had passed. Arguing became the chronic new normal. The idea of “fun” in their relationship seemed almost laughable.  That’s where things were when I started...

Truth time... even though I'm a world-renowned expert on love and relationships, I don't and haven't always had my sh!t together. I’ve really struggled to figure out who I am as a partner, and how to navigate this whole love thing that we are “supposed” to be good...